"Don't forget to love yourself"

"Don't forget to love yourself" As a young woman dealing with society's concept of what's acceptable wether is be your hair, weight, skin, height it has definitely helped me realise there is no such thing as 'perfect'. You need to feel happy in your own skin and love yourself enough to never let anyone's negative comments affect you, easier said than done right? As women learning to empower another woman is such a beautiful thing and every one of us is beautiful. This being a sensitive subject with me as growing up I always struggled with feeling happy in my own skin I would consistantly look for reassurance from my mum wether it be my weight or how I looked physically but as always I thought because she is my mum she has to be positive right? I have always seeked reassurance but never once did I reassure myself that everyone of us is different, we all go through leaps and bounds in life and I had to tell myself there is no such thing as perfect!. To this day I have always gone up and down in my weight which still can be such a sensitive subject I slways see myself as an emotional eater, wether I was happy, sad, frustrated or excited I would tend to overeat which made me incredibly anxious and feel in a bad place, it's took me a while but I am slowly starting to accept we are who we are, if your hungry eat, if your not, don't. Do what makes you happy, negative people will always try and bring you down no matter the circumstances, but when you see positive in you that's the reassurance you need.  Be kind always Bx